Last week classes ended and I began my six week Independent Study in Journalism (ISJ). A friend described our program as a very rapid transition from childhood to adulthood; when we first arrived here our host parents walked us to school as if we were elementary school children and now we've moved out and are living on our own. Funny enough, as the time came to move to Casablanca I was able to remove myself from life in the medina and finally begin to see how different life here is from life in the US. Here are a few glimpses into life in Morocco, particularly in the Rabat medina:
-Swiftly walking through the medina's tiny streets, I approach a section of street covered with rubble. A large brick tumbles from above and almost hits me on the head! It reminded me of the time Eboni and I went to find Marie and had a similar experience with medina construction just outside of her house. It's all part of the mashky mushky (no problem) attitude here. Oh, the rubble we're dumping off this roof might hit a passerby below...mashky mushky!

-A couch is my permanent bed. My house in the medina consists of an entry way, a tiny bathroom, a kitchen, and two sitting/bedrooms. During the day, the two rooms are used for entertaining guests, eating, and watching television, but after dinner a transformation occurs. As early as 9 pm and as late as 12 am, my family opens the blanket closet and distributes the thick woolen and polar fleece blankets. I remove all of the pillows from the couch I'd like to sleep on and use them to help block out cold air from the window. I then cover the sumptuous fabric of the couch with a thin blanket, a kind of bottom sheet. Next comes the standard pillow and four heavy blankets, which I then slide under. My host mother can get by with just two blankets and no bottom sheet, but I don't think I've ever been so cold as when living in Morocco. My friends always joke that we're in Africa, but it sometimes feels like Alaska! In the middle of March it started getting much warmer, though. Anyway, the couch arrangement is a traditional Moroccan sleeping situation. The couches of lavish salons become beds at night.

-Meals also take place in these salons. There is no eating or sipping on starbucks in the street here! Eating is a communal experience. My host mother places one large dish in the center of the table and passes out the chobs (bread). I tear off a little piece, holding it in my right hand with the index and middle finger and jam food into it. My village host brother told me that it has been scientifically proven that there are enzymes in your fingers that help you digest when eating with your hands. We eat from the outside of the dish to the center and you must respect your zone, your side of the dish. Breakfast often consists of chobs, chocolate spread, fromage, mint tea, zebda (butter) and zit zitoun (olive oil). I couldn't stand the zebda and zit zitoun at first; they are fresher and have less additives than our versions so they taste completely different, but now I'm a big fan. Lunch is the most important meal and we always have cous cous on fridays. There are many different versions of the dish, but my host cousin always makes my family's. She carries it to us through the streets each Friday, covered with a dish towel. It is always on a huge platter and is topped with vegetables; the chicken is hidden in the middle. Cous cous is served with a buttermilk that I just cannot accustom myself too. Caskrote (snack) is the next meal and is usually served between 5-7; it is just like breakfast. Dinner is often a smaller version of lunch and comes anywhere from 9-11.
-Body noises are not a source of embarrassment. My host mother, for example, burps and passes gas unapologetically. She even says hamdullilah (praise to God) after burping. She also very loudly spits into the sink every morning. Yes, it does disgust me a bit, but I've gotten used to it.
-Pajama culture. People hardly ever get dressed, particularly women. My host mother changes her outfit once every three weeks. She'll often just throw a djellaba over her pajamas and go out. My village host brother slept in the same clothes he wore every day. He did not shower either; a shower to him was only for a rare, celebratory occasion. I see girls my age wearing pajamas in the street and it is the most normal thing in the world.
-Cars are made to stuff people into. I have been in a car made to seat five people, but with nine people along for the ride. There are two types of taxis here: petit taxis cannot leave a city's boundaries and can only transport three people. Grand taxis can travel between cities and can squeeze six people in. I have also seen people jump onto moving buses and hang onto the back of trucks.
-Medina streets can be quite messy. In fact, there is even a street we call the garbage street. Especially when walking around late at night, after the day's commercial activity has ended, the streets become a sea of discarded papers, bottles, and wrappers. There are very few public trash cans in the city and people treat the street like a garbage can, mashky mushky. When the streets are busy the filth is still present, just less noticeable. I always seem to step in puddles of mysterious water. Luckily, I've become pretty good at avoiding the blood streaming through the streets from the butcher stands.
-I never believe my eyes when I'm walking past butcher shops. I see full legs, hooves, and cow heads on full display. Butcher shops in the states almost never present meat in its original form.
-Stoves in the medina are powered by gas tanks that have to be replaced and replenished every few months. My host mother even has a decorated cover for her gas tanks. I often see little kids in tattered clothes pushing the tanks through the streets.
-I love to watch my six year old host nephew and his mom interact. She's a strong disciplinarian and often hits him or shouts hashuma (shame), but he also gets away with a lot that American six year olds wouldn't. I was surprised when his Mother brought him coffee one day. Here, youngsters drink coffee.

- Street harassment could be a blog post in and of itself. It is constant and mainly verbal, although one friend was groped the other day. "Bonjour, tu es très belle!", "Zwina" (beautiful), "Hey! Do you want to talk to me? Hello? Bonjour?", "Ohhhhhh Myyyy Godddd". And the penetrating stares; you know those eyes are fixed on you until you round the corner. My mood towards it constantly changes. Sometimes the New Yorker comes out and I want to throw a punch or some mean words. Other times I've been amused by the behavior and I've even appreciated it. I've also wanted to crawl into a hole and never come out again. We had one class with a female Moroccan rapper, Soultana. She wants this behavior to change and hopes that her songs will make men realize "Hey, that could be my sister, Mother, or wife. I shouldn't harass them."
-The ever present call to prayer. Sometimes it is an annoyance, but it is often an incredible feeling to stop what I'm doing and listen as it begins to emanate from every mosque. I'm always surprised to hear it at five in the morning if I wake up in the middle of the night. The best listening experience is from the CCCL's highest balcony at lunch time when you can see each Mosque and point out each one as it begins the call, "Alahu Akbar...Alahu Akbar."
Leaving the Medina for Casablanca felt so strange! Our last week was all about preparing for the ISJ. In French class Louis and I were given assignments that got us outside, practicing in the field. We spent one morning drinking mint tea in my favorite café, which is inside the Andalusian Gardens and has a beautiful view of the ocean. Then we interviewed Moufdi, the owner of our favorite orange juice stop just across from the kasbah. All of the language classes had to present skits on Friday. Louis and I met with our professor at a literary café behind the Mohammed V theatre to prepare. Our skit had Louis and I running into each other in Rabat in 30 years, reliving our memories, and discussing what all of our friends were up to. I had become the Princess of Monaco hahah! That last week Louis, Marie, Stacy, Linda Brooks (a friend of Mary's who was visiting and teaching us about photojournalism), and I also went to visit Chellah, the Roman ruins in Rabat.

On our last Friday we had a small get together at the CCCL to thank the host families. My host mother and host sister couldn't make it, but I went with my host cousin, Asthon's host sister Aziza. Aziza and my host mother dressed Ashton and me up in matching pink caftans. Aziza also embroidered us two headscarfs, not hijabs, but the kind that women where while working in the house. After the party I packed my bags and two days later, that Sunday, I hugged my host mother and dragged my suitcases to the train station.